Have you ever had a day/moment/ lifetime where you have had so many thoughts you don’t even know where to start? You wake up with a powerful river of thoughts crashing into your mind at once. How do we get those to slow down? How do we turn that river into a steady stream? Mantras are one way to slow those thoughts down.
Mantras are words or phrases that you can say repeatedly to yourself, silently or out loud while breathing. They are used to calm down your thoughts and to replace some of those less helpful thoughts we all have. You can repeat these mantras anywhere from a minute to hours. All you need is a quiet space to do this.
The word mantra is from two Sanskrit words: “manas,” which means mind, and “tra” means tool. This translates to a tool for the mind. Whoa!
Many mantras have their roots in spiritual texts however; this is not a necessary component of mantras if you do not want it to be. For example, a mantra for Christians may be a word or a phrase from the Bible, such as “Jesus. For individuals who take a yogic perspective, they may practice, “Om.” Whatever you choose must resonate with YOU, whether it has its roots in religion, spirituality, or not.
Find a comfortable seat or lay down.
Close your eyes.
Inhale, say your mantra.
Exhale, say your mantra.
Mantras can be said silently or out loud. You may choose to begin a consistent mantra practice by setting aside five minutes each day to practice your mantra or you may choose to use them when you need them.
Anyone can use these; kids, tweens, teens, and adults!
Say your five-year-old is struggling with going to school for the first time. Encourage her to utilize a mantra. You could even say it with her! It is best to keep it very simple, especially at first. For example, “I am safe. I can do this! “ Repeat this with her. On an inhale, say, “I am safe. I can do this!” On the exhale, say, “I am safe. I can do this!” Repeat this for one minute with her. Encourage her to come back to this mantra throughout the day.
Teens can use these too. Maybe your teen is worried about a big test they have coming up, encourage him to utilize a mantra. For example, “I am capable. I am prepared.” Encourage him to say this first thing in the morning for a couple of minutes and throughout the day before the test.
Adults can use these too. Life comes with many ups and downs. Some days are harder than others. A helpful mantra for adults may be, ”I trust my path.” When seeking to be more compassionate or loving, you may use, “I am love. I am compassion.” On days when you feel like you are stretched too thin; kids, partner, animals, practice, work, meals, the list goes on and on! A mantra to try may be, “I am enough.”
There are so many options for mantras! Choose a mantra that works for you and watch it create more joy and peace in your mind.
Want some help writing a mantra that works for you? Reach out to us to create your mantra!
We can help you personalize your mantra (you know, to make it SUPER powerful).
Marissa Wilson is a Licensed Master Social Worker (LMSW) and a Registered Yoga Teacher (RYT-200) at Lifeologie. She teaches psychotherapeutic yoga and works with adolescents to help them be themselves. Marissa believes that every person (including tweens/teens) already has what they need to heal, but sometimes our “okay-ness” gets stuck under layers of self-protection and hurt. To find out more about Marissa, check out her biography.
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