The Semantics: What Is A Behavioral Addiction?
A behavioral addiction , sometimes called process addiction, is an overwhelming, even compulsive desire to engage in certain behaviors, with an increasing need for more, more, more to achieve that elusive high.
How can a behavior be addictive? Dopamine centers in the brain respond to things like things like gaming, gambling, destructive sexual behaviors and pornography just like they do to alcohol and drugs. And over time, you need more and more of whatever addictive behavior is providing that rush.
A behavioral addiction develops when a compulsive behavior (unrelated to OCPD or substance abuse) adversely disrupts your life: upheaving your social, familial, or romantic relationships; declining your academic or occupational functioning; and generating an avalanche of financial, legal, or medical repercussions.
Generalized symptoms of behavioral addictions are similar to the psychological indicators associated with substance abuse, and may include:
- Secrecy: Attempting to conceal the behavior from family, friends, or romantic partners
- Denial: Refusing to admit to the severity of your addiction when confronted by others
- Emotional Roller-coastering: Experiencing feelings of euphoria while engaging in the activity, and a subsequent flood of guilt, shame, or embarrassment after having indulged
- Withdrawal symptoms: Anxiety, angry outbursts, or despair when access to the activity is obstructed or cessation from the behavior is attempted
- Tolerance: Requiring ever-increasing amounts of time spent engaging in the behavior in order to feel sated
- Relationships: Suffering interpersonal difficulties in your romantic, familial, or social relationships; or forging mutually destructive, codependent relationships with individuals who enable your addiction
- Performance: Witnessing a reduction in your academic or occupational functioning (including failing assignments or losing your job)
- Financial, Legal, or Medical: Overspending or engaging in illegal activities to support your habit; encountering unforeseen medical consequences (for example: contracting an STD from engaging in risky sexual behaviors, as a component of sexual addiction)
Can Any Behavior Be Considered Habit-Forming?
Some would argue “yes” and others would adamantly maintain “no”. However, the most oft-recognized behavioral addictions include:
7 Common Categories of Behavioral Addictions
- Technology Use: Internet, video games, cell phone use, social media, and television-watching
- Sexual Addictions: Engaging in frequent, anonymous, or risky sexual behavior; excessive consumption of pornography; compulsive masturbation; voyeurism or frotteurism; sadomasochism or other fetishes that generate personal distress, plus more+
- Uncontrolled gambling
- Shopping or unrestrained spending
- Stealing (Kleptomania)
- Setting fires (Pyromania)
- Food & Exercise: Binge-eating or compulsive exercise
…But, what about hoarding?
Hoarding—or compulsively acquiring animals, worthless items, or trash to the detriment of your health, interpersonal functioning, or employment—is now considered to be its own disorder, distinct from OCD or behavioral addiction. However, as in other compulsive conditions, individuals who hoard suffer from emotional overwhelm when encouraged to alter their living habits (for example: by discarding trash or placing animals for adoption, etc.).
How Can Counseling & Therapy Services For Compulsive Behavioral Addictions Help Me?
Although compulsive and addictive behaviors can be difficult to kick, just as therapeutic interventions have demonstrated proven effectiveness as treatment options for substance abuse, so too can you use counseling as a means to achieve recovery from your battle with obsessive thoughts and uncontrollable habits. To facilitate your recovery, your therapist may recommend:
- Medical intervention:to rule out the possibility of an underlying cause
- Cognitive Behavioral Therapy:which rewires destructive thought patterns that underlie and maintain your condition and encourages behavioral modification
- Exposure Response Prevention: as a treatment for Obsessive Compulsive Disorder, in which your therapist exposes you to situations that are known to trigger a cascade of obsessive thoughts and then requires you to abstain from engaging in the accompanying compulsive behavior that is typically employed to alleviate your anxiety. Overtime, your therapist will increase the amount of time that you are required to abstain from participating in the behavior until doing so becomes manageable for you to execute on your own
- Incorporating the principles of 12-Step:which is normally used to treat substance abuse disorders, however as in this instance, can also be generalized to treat behavioral addictions (including sexual addiction, gambling, technology addictions, more+)
- Group Therapy:which enables you to form a support network with other individuals who are actively battling or are managing their recovery from a behavioral addiction
- Alternative Therapies:such as mindfulness, meditation, psychotherapeutic yoga, journaling, equine therapy, or expressive arts as therapy to explore unconventional outlets for self-soothing and stress management
- Monitored Medication Use: In rare instances, your therapist may also refer you to a medical doctor, who is capable of prescribing medications to treat your condition, or a residential therapy program that can provide you with around-the-clock care during your time of recovery
Meet our counselors who specialize in this issue
- Adriana SpeikerLPC, LCDC-InternDallas & Fort WorthFees;
Therapy: $130 per 50 min
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- Kirsten ShafferLMFT Associate Supervised by Dr. Misti Sparks, LMFT-SDallas & Fort WorthFees: $90 per 50 min sessionSpecialties: Addiction & Substance Abuse, Anorexia, Behavioral Addictions, Bullimia, Codependency Issues, Couples Counseling, Drug and Alcohol Abuse, Eating Disorders, Families & Mental Illness, Family Issues, Marriage Counseling
- Saliha QadirLife CoachDallas officeFees: $90 for 50 min sessionSpecialties: Addiction & Substance Abuse, Anger Management, Arranged Marriages, Behavioral Addictions, Couples Counseling, Depression, Drug and Alcohol Abuse, Infidelity, Interfaith Relationships, LGBTQ & Gender Issues, Marriage Counseling, Mental Health Issues, Religious & Cultural Issues, Sex & Sexuality, Women's Issues