Intimate partner violence, or domestic violence, is a pattern of abusive and coercive behavior that is used by one partner in order to establish power and control. Violence in relationships can take many forms. Perpetrators may use physical, verbal, mental, sexual and financial abuse to control their partners.
Anyone can find themselves in abusive relationships as intimate partner violence does not discriminate between socioeconomic status, age, race, gender or education level. Odds are, if you haven't experienced domestic violence, you know someone who has. According to the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence, one in four women and one in nine men has experienced violence perpetrated by their intimate partner.
While it may feel overwhelming or frightening to discover that a loved one is in an abusive relationship, there are things you can do to be a safe and supportive person for your loved one.
Being mindful of your loved one’s privacy, seek support if you are finding it difficult to cope with the knowledge of the abuse. It is important to take care of yourself to avoid potentially experiencing secondary trauma.
For more resources about supporting a friend or family member who is experiencing intimate partner violence, visit the National Domestic Violence Hotline.
If we can help support you, please reach out to Lifeologie Counseling Grand Rapids in Cascade or Ada. We have skilled clinicians that can help you walk this journey. Meet our team, visit our client portal to request an appointment, or read more about trauma caused by abuse. Outside Michigan? Search our Lifeologie Counseling locations to find a therapist near you.