Caregivers Need Counseling Too


For many couples, dreaming about retirement makes saving during the younger years a bit easier. But that dream can take a turn when one partner develops dementia, and the other steps into the role of full-time caregiver. More than 6.5 million Americans aged 65 and older live with Alzheimer’s, the most common form of dementia, and over 65% of those diagnosed are primarily cared for by a family member

Caring for a loved one can be incredibly fulfilling and often saves money compared to full-time care or inpatient services. But let's be honest, being on call 24/7 can be exhausting and lead to feelings of fatigue, anxiety, and burnout. Caregiving can take a toll on your body, emotions, and wallet. It can also put a strain on your relationships and social life. Many caregivers find it tough to carve out time for themselves, often feeling guilty and turning down offers of help or social invites. Shifting from roles like wife or daughter to full-time caregiver can be tricky, and the new responsibilities might feel overwhelming, especially if they involve skills like financial management or medical care that you're not used to.

Be Honest About Burnout

It's perfectly okay to reach out for help or even have a good vent about the challenges of caring for someone you love. Let's face it, folks who are seriously ill might not always be the easiest to care for. They could be in pain, feeling frustrated, or even a bit demanding as they navigate their reality. If you or someone you know is feeling the weight of caregiver burnout, it's super important to be upfront about the stress you're experiencing. Your primary care provider can be a great ally, checking in on your mental and physical health, suggesting helpful interventions, and connecting you with resources like support groups, community services, or adult day care centers. Respite care services are also available to give caregivers a much-needed break, whether that's through care at a facility or having home health staff step in for a bit. 

Consider asking for help with community resources from your family physician or fill out this form at the National Respite Locator Service at https://arch.gnosishosting.net/Portal/Registry to identify appropriate options in your area.

Exploring mindfulness techniques and including healthy choices for diet and exercise can help reduce the effects of caregiver anxiety. A Stanford study of elderly Latina and white females who functioned as primary caregivers for family members with dementia found that a 6-session yoga and meditation intervention program improved their feelings and confidence in their coping skills, physical well-being, and ability to manage stress. 

Next Steps

When you're navigating the challenging journey of caregiving, a counselor who understands caregiver issues and stress management can be a beacon of support. They can guide you in finding that delicate balance between your responsibilities and making time for self-care, and help you build the skills needed for the transitions that come when caregiving changes or ends. Lifeologie Counseling offers both virtual and in-person support groups, creating a safe space where caregivers can connect, share their stories, and learn valuable self-care and stress-reduction techniques.

Reach out to your primary care doctor for recommendations on local resources, or connect with our compassionate therapists near you who are dedicated to supporting individuals and families caring for aging parents. Looking for a Lifeologie Therapist near you? Visit our therapists page to search by state, city, or specialty1

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