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Infidelity is a breach of trust between two people in a committed relationship. It is more than an affair; it also encompasses emotional attachment with another person, online relationships or pornography, amassing hidden debt, or even obsessing about another object or activity.

Men are more likely than women to cheat on their spouses, and to report a lack of sexual satisfaction as their most common reason for straying. Women who cheat say a lack of emotional intimacy is their most common underlying cause. In truth, there are often many issues that lead us to look outside our own union for fulfillment.

If you and your partner have experienced infidelity and are unsure about continuing your relationship, a few sessions of discernment counseling (also known as last-ditch couples counseling) can help you make a decision. If you can both agree to work on your relationship, consider working with a counselor who specializes in infidelity recovery to start the process of healing and begin the work to establish trust, mutual respect, and intimacy.

Common Challenges

  • rage
  • guilt or shame
  • anxiety
  • depression
  • avoidance
  • erratic behavior 
  • low self-esteem

How does Lifeologie help?

Discuss your concerns with our intake specialists.

When you reach out to a Lifeologie, you’ll be connected with one of our Intake Specialists. In a “call center?” No way. Our specialists are each located in their local Lifeologie office and know the counselors well. Their entire job is to learn about you and what you’re looking for and to match you with the counselor who will be the very best fit for your needs and preferences.

Find a counselor that is passionate about helping you reach your mental health goals.

Our counselors are literally the cream of the crop. We get hundreds of applications every year to intern and work at our offices. Lifeologists are counselors, life coaches and overall wellness advocates who are experts and specialists in their craft. At the intern level, they have set themselves apart as incredible learners and collaborators, chasing after the highest-level trainings in the field. From EMDR to nutrition coaching to brain spotting and addiction specialists, we have you covered. Once you enter a Lifeologie office, you’ll find that we’ve carefully curated the environment to feel modern, comfortable and inviting. Counseling at Lifeologie is not your typical counseling experience – in any way.

Receive continuous support and guidance as you go on your mental health journey.

Your counselor at Lifeologie will meet you wherever you are, whether you’re just starting in counseling for the first time ever… or returning to a life-long counseling journey after a brief break. Your Lifeologist will partner with you to meet your goals. As you learn and grow, we can help you focus on overall wellness through mindfulness practices such as Psychotherapeutic Yoga or mindful eating. Wherever you are, we can come alongside and help you move forward!


about lifeologie

Lifeologie Institute was founded in 2000 with one goal in mind — to bring a fresh, innovative approach to the everyday problems of life. Creative solutions to stuck problems. With our unique multi-specialty, collaborative approach, Lifeologie helps individuals and families heal their wounds and break out of old, unhealthy patterns.